The Household Cluster · Sub-pillar
Who Inherits in Nigeria
How the Law Decides Which Relationships Count
Nigerian law does not distribute an estate according to the life that was lived. It distributes according to the relationships it is able to recognise — and it recognises far fewer than most families assume. This page sets out the five statuses the law can read, what each one produces, and why so many ordinary Nigerian households fall outside all of them.
Paul Magaji · 12 min read
A woman keeps a house for twenty-two years. She raises four children in it, two of them hers by birth and two of them not. She is known in the compound as his wife, called so by his mother, seated as such at funerals, named as such on the school forms. There was a ceremony of some kind at the beginning, attended by both families, though nobody now living can say with confidence what was paid or to whom. There is no certificate. There was never a reason to get one.
He dies on a Tuesday. By Saturday the house has visitors.
They are not unkind. Several of them are genuinely grieving. But somewhere between the burial and the fortieth day a question is asked aloud for the first time in twenty-two years, and once asked it cannot be unasked: on what basis, exactly, is she in this house?
She has an answer. It is a true answer, and it is a long one, and it is made almost entirely of things that happened rather than things that were written down. The law will listen to it. The law will then ask her a much shorter question, and everything will turn on that.
(A constructed illustration. The pattern is ordinary; the person is not real.)
The law does not ask who you loved. It asks what it can read.
Act One
Where the Institution Enters
A household feels like the most private thing a person has. For most of its life it is left alone. No registrar visits. No statute is consulted. The arrangements that govern it — who contributes what, whose name the land is in, which child is treated as whose, what was said at a ceremony a generation ago — are made informally, adjusted informally, and never once written down, because writing them down would have been an insult and there was no occasion for it.
Then the household reaches one of four moments, and the institution walks in the door.
It walks in at death, when an estate must be distributed and somebody must be authorised to distribute it. It walks in at separation, when property acquired jointly must be divided between people who no longer agree on what joint meant. It walks in at incapacity, when someone must be permitted to decide on another person’s behalf. And it walks in at dispute, when a bank, a land registry, a hospital or a company registrar requires an answer to a question the family has been comfortable leaving open.
At each of those moments the institution asks the same thing. It does not ask about the twenty-two years. It asks what status the relationship holds, and it looks for the record that proves it.
This is not cruelty and it is not an oversight. An institution can only act on what it can verify. A registrar cannot weigh devotion. A court can weigh evidence, but only evidence that is put before it, and only after somebody has paid to put it there. The system is built to answer a narrow question quickly, and the narrow question is: which recognised status is this, and where is the document?
Almost everything difficult about Nigerian succession follows from the distance between how households actually form and what the law is equipped to read.
Act Two
What the Law Can Read
Nigerian law recognises intimate and family relationships through a small number of statuses. Each has its own conditions of entry, its own evidence, and its own consequences on death and on separation. They are not interchangeable, and a household is not free to choose which one it is in after the fact.
Status One
The Statutory Marriage
A certificate, a registry entry, and the widest set of statutory consequences.
A marriage contracted under the Marriage Act is monogamous in law, celebrated before a registrar or in a licensed place of worship, and evidenced by a certificate and an entry in a marriage register. It is the only form the law can verify from a document alone.
What follows from it is substantial. On intestacy in most southern states the Administration of Estates Law of the state applies, giving the surviving spouse a defined entitlement in the estate. The Matrimonial Causes Act governs dissolution and gives the court power over settlement of property and maintenance. The surviving spouse has standing to apply for letters of administration. The status is not disputable in the ordinary case; it is produced.
The Consequence
The certificate is not a formality. It is the thing that converts a relationship into a set of enforceable rights without anybody having to prove what happened at the ceremony. Its whole function is to make the question unnecessary.
Status Two
The Customary Marriage
Valid and recognised — but proved by people, not paper.
Customary marriage is a real and valid form of marriage in Nigeria. Its requirements are set by the custom of the community concerned, and typically include the consent of both families and the payment of bride price, with a ceremony that the community treats as constitutive. It is potentially polygynous. Several states provide for registration of customary marriages, though in practice registration is uneven and a great many are never registered at all.
The difficulty is not validity. The difficulty is proof. Where there is no registration, the marriage is established by evidence — witnesses to the ceremony, the family members who negotiated it, the community’s treatment of the parties over time. That evidence is available while the witnesses are alive, willing and in agreement. It becomes progressively harder to assemble as the years pass, which is to say it is at its weakest at precisely the moment it is first needed.
Succession then follows the customary law of the deceased’s community, which varies materially between communities and which the courts will not apply where it fails the repugnancy test — where it is contrary to natural justice, equity and good conscience, or incompatible with a written law.
The Consequence
A valid marriage that cannot be proved operates, at the moment of dispute, exactly like no marriage at all. The distinction between being married and being able to demonstrate it collapses under pressure, and it always collapses in the same direction.
Status Three
The Marriage Under Islamic Personal Law
Recognised in the states that apply it, with succession by fixed shares rather than discretion.
In the northern states and wherever Islamic personal law applies to the parties, marriage and succession are governed by that system, administered through the Sharia courts. Its succession rules are not discretionary and not customary in the sense used above: entitlements are calculated as fixed proportions of the estate according to the surviving relations, and the testamentary freedom of the deceased operates within a defined limit.
For present purposes the important feature is that this system, too, is a system of recognised statuses. It answers the question of who inherits by first answering the question of what relationship each claimant holds, and it requires that relationship to be established before any share is calculated.
The Consequence
The choice of applicable law is not made at the graveside. It is fixed long before, by the parties, their personal law and the form in which they married — and families frequently discover which system governs them only when it is applied to them.
Status Four
The Child
A status the Constitution has strengthened, and custom has not always followed.
A child’s position in an estate has historically depended on distinctions drawn by custom — between children born within a recognised marriage and outside it, and in some communities between sons and daughters. Those distinctions have been substantially overtaken.
The Constitution provides that no citizen shall be subjected to any disability or deprivation merely by reason of the circumstances of his birth. The Supreme Court applied that provision in Ukeje v Ukeje (2014) to strike down a customary rule excluding a female child from her father’s estate, and has repeatedly held customary rules that disinherit widows and children to be repugnant and void, as in Anekwe v Nweke (2014). The line of authority is settled and it runs one way.
What remains contested in practice is not the principle but the proof: whether the child is the child of the deceased, and whether that was ever acknowledged. Acknowledgment of paternity during the lifetime of the father does substantial work in Nigerian succession, and it is not always documented.
The Consequence
A constitutional right is a powerful thing to hold and a slow thing to enforce. The child who must establish paternity after the father’s death is exercising a right that exists — through a process the estate may not survive intact.
Status Five
The Unrecognised Household
No status, no share, and in the ordinary case no standing to be heard.
This is the category the woman in the cold open occupies, and it is far larger than it should be. It holds the partner of many years where no marriage in any recognised form was ever contracted. It holds the household where a ceremony took place but nothing about it can now be established. It holds the second household that was never formalised. It holds arrangements that everyone involved regarded as a marriage and that the law regards as nothing at all.
Nigerian law does not recognise cohabitation as a status. There is no common-law marriage. Length of cohabitation does not ripen into anything. Contribution to a household does not, without more, create a proprietary interest. Being universally known as someone’s wife is evidence that a customary marriage may have taken place, which is useful — but it is evidence of a status, not a substitute for one.
Where a claim exists at all, it is usually not a family-law claim but a property claim: a resulting or constructive trust arising from direct financial contribution to the acquisition of an asset, an express agreement capable of proof, or a beneficial interest under a document. These are real routes. They are also evidential, expensive, and slow, and they protect the contribution rather than the relationship.
The Consequence
This is the status that surprises people, because it is invisible until the moment it is applied. Nothing about the household announces it. The family knows it, the community knows it, the schools know it — and the register does not, and only the register is asked.
Act Three
What Turns on Recognition
Recognition is not a matter of dignity or of naming. It is the switch that controls six practical things, and it controls all of them at once.
The first is standing to administer. Someone must obtain letters of administration before an intestate estate can lawfully be dealt with. Who may apply, and in what order of priority, depends on recognised relationship. A person with no status does not merely lose a share; she is not a person the process is addressed to.
The second is the share itself — the entitlement on intestacy under the applicable statutory, customary or Islamic regime.
The third is the matrimonial home. On separation, the court’s power to order settlement of property between spouses is exercised over people who are spouses. Outside that jurisdiction, the question reverts to strict title and proof of contribution.
The fourth is the family house — property held not by an individual but by a family as a unit, inalienable without the consent of the family, administered by its head. A person outside the recognised family does not acquire rights in it by living in it, however long.
The fifth is the children: custody, maintenance, and the framework through which either is claimed.
The sixth is the plainest and the most easily missed. It is the right to be told. Banks release balances to persons with authority. Registries respond to persons with an interest. Hospitals speak to next of kin. A person with no recognised status is not refused an answer so much as never reached by the question, and by the time she understands that, decisions have already been taken.
Act Four
Why So Many Households Fall Outside
It would be comfortable to treat the unrecognised household as an unusual case. It is not. It is produced systematically, by four ordinary features of Nigerian life.
The first is that we operate two systems of marriage side by side and only one of them generates a document as a matter of course. Statutory marriage is a minority form in much of the country. Customary marriage is the majority form and, absent registration, leaves the household holding a valid status with nothing to produce.
The second is that formality is read as distrust. To ask for a certificate, a deed, a written agreement, or a record of what was paid is to suggest that the relationship might one day be contested — which is precisely the suggestion nobody wants to make at a wedding. The instrument that would have settled the question is not omitted by accident; it is declined on purpose, for a reason that is entirely human and turns out to be expensive.
The third is that assets sit in the wrong names for good reasons. The land is in the father’s name because it was his father’s. The account is in one name because two names were inconvenient at the branch. The business was registered by whoever went to the office. None of this was intended to allocate ownership. All of it will be read as though it were.
The fourth is time. The people who could have proved what happened were present at the beginning and are not present at the end. Nothing degrades faster than an unrecorded fact.
It is true, and important, that the courts have moved a long way. The repugnancy doctrine has been used to strike down customary rules disinheriting widows and daughters; the constitutional protection against disability by birth has real force; and the direction of authority since Mojekwu v Mojekwu (1997) is consistent. But there is a difference between a rule of law and a remedy actually available to a particular household. A judgment is obtained by a claimant who has standing, evidence, money and time, in that order. Most of what this cluster examines is the gap between the two.
A right you must litigate to establish is not a right you hold. It is a right you might win.
Act Five
What Can Be Done Before the Question Arises
The whole of the analysis above points to one conclusion, and it is a constructive one. If the law will only act on statuses it can read, then a household that cannot obtain the status it wants must arrange its affairs so that the outcome does not depend on the status at all.
That is what instruments are for. An instrument does not marry anyone and does not confer a status. It does something narrower and more reliable: it fixes an entitlement to property by a route the register can verify, independently of what the register thinks of the relationship.
Four routes do most of the work.
A will disposes of what the testator owns, to whomever he chooses, subject to the limits of the applicable law — which for a person governed by Islamic personal law is a real and defined limit, and which everywhere leaves the family house and jointly-owned property outside the testator’s gift. A will is the cheapest of the four and the most frequently defective, because it is written once and never revisited.
A lifetime transfer moves the asset now, into the correct name, through the register that governs it. It is definitive and it is irreversible, which is both its virtue and its risk.
A trust separates the person who benefits from the person who holds. It is the instrument that answers this problem most directly, because it can provide for a dependant the law of succession would not reach, it operates outside the estate, and it does not require the beneficiary to establish any status other than being named. This is the reason a body of work on trusts is the natural home for a body of work on households.
A letter of wishes carries the explanation the instrument cannot — who the people are, why the provision is what it is, and what the maker of it understood the arrangement to be. It binds nobody. It has settled a great many disputes that a bare instrument would have started.
None of this is a substitute for regularising a status where a status can be regularised. Where a customary marriage exists and can be registered, register it. Where a statutory marriage is wanted, contract it. Where paternity is a fact, acknowledge it in a form that will outlive the person acknowledging it. The instruments are for what remains after that — and for most Nigerian households, something always remains.
Act Six
The Questions This Cluster Answers
Each of the essays below takes one household question and follows it to the register that decides it. They can be read in any order; the first is the paradigm case the others are measured against.
The woman in the cold open is not without remedies. She may be able to prove a customary marriage. She may be able to establish a beneficial interest in the house through her contribution. She may have a claim as the mother of children of the deceased. Each of those is a real route and each is examined below.
What she does not have is the one thing that would have made none of it necessary, and it would have cost less than a single day in court.
The law will not be persuaded of a relationship it cannot read. What it will not recognise, an instrument must provide for.
Authority
The statutory framework referred to comprises the Marriage Act, the Matrimonial Causes Act, the Administration of Estates Laws of the several states, the Child’s Rights Act and its state adoptions, and the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria 1999 as amended. The cases named are Ukeje v Ukeje (2014), Anekwe v Nweke (2014) and Mojekwu v Mojekwu (1997). Customary and Islamic personal law vary materially between states and communities; nothing here states the law of any particular community. Section numbers are given in the essays below only where the provision has been verified against the text of the instrument itself. This page is a statement of general principle and is not legal advice on any person’s affairs.